Family fun is an important part of building a strong family identity. When families have fun together, it builds a bong that can last a lifetime. Traditions are often developed in times of fun. Those traditions help define and individualize each family. At the Savage household, we have a tradition of fun called “surprise rides”. This started when the older children were small, and we wanted to surprise them with a spontaneous activity. It might be ice cream at our favorite ice cream parlor, food at our favorite restaurant, a spontaneous trip to the park, or a matinee showing of a new family movie. Whatever it is, thought, the anticipation is the best part of the fun. From the time Mark and I yell, “Surprise ride,” and everyone rushes to get in the car, until the time that we arrive at our surprise destination, the excitement increases.